10 Life Lessons We Learned From Nancy Drew
This week (April 28th) we celebrated the 85th Birthday of Nancy Drew, and although her adventures can seem a little dated, we have learned a lot from this badass lady sleuth. At the time there weren't many role models for girls who were all things brainy, brave and feminine, and the values she instilled in us are timeless. Here are 10 of our favorites:
Women Can Do Anything - Even In A Skirt
Patriarchy didn’t stop Nancy Drew, and neither did her flawless style. This woman could do just about anything, and most of the time she did it in pleats and plaids. This is not only impressive because skirts can be hard, but because it challenges the stereotypical norm of femininity. A lady who can wear cute little heels and kick ass? Yes, please!
Love What You Do
If there was one thing Nancy Drew taught us about it was the passion the right career could bring to a person’s life. Nancy was the happiest when she was digging out some old painting or uncovering some scandalous secret, and although sleuthing didn’t come naturally to all of us, it inspired us to find that thing that did.
Solving Mysteries Is The Best Summer Job
Can you think of any better way to spend a summer than creeping around old houses and running into oddballs with something to hide? Yes? Well then we have nothing more to say to each other.
Curiosity Is Key
Curiosity is at the heart of all Nancy’s adventures, as well as at the heart of what drives all of us every day. We keep asking questions, and we keep wondering, which is how we keep advancing, technologically and culturally. When curiosity dies, so does passion.
Lady Friends Rule
Nancy Drew's friends aren’t always up for her shenanigans, but the fact that they help her out anyway is the true meaning of friendship. She never pretends to be a solo act, and she surrounds herself with supportive people who love her (even though they think she’s kind of crazy) and would do anything for her.
Finding A Partner In Crime Who Totally Gets You Is Key
Ned Nickerson is THE DUDE. Not only is he just the sweetest, he is all about Nancy’s mystery-solving game. Support is one of the most important qualities in a boo. Nancy doesn’t settle for anyone who doesn’t get that she’s independent and brave, and neither should anyone else.
You Have To Take Risks
Nancy never shied away from a creepy staircase, cave, or carnival. The girl was fearless. Taking risks doesn’t just reward those searching for clues, it’s essential for anyone in their professional and personal life.
Don’t Always Trust Super Friendly People
Okay, yes, some people are simply born to be bubbles of happiness, and although all this goodness seems impossible, it’s totally not. On the other hand, all the friendliest people Nancy comes across usually end up being the villains in the end. Coincidence? Let’s just say it is lovely to find those naturally wonderful people--but there is power in protecting your heart, and not eliminating any suspects until there is solid proof!
Find Time To “Do You”
Nancy knew when to take a personal day, whether it was shopping with her friends, or a party with her main squeeze. It’s important to be driven and determined, but just as important to give yourself a rest and hit recharge once in a while.
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10 Times Toni Morrison Completely Shifted The Way We See The World
Toni Morrison has been a powerhouse of wisdom and truth ever since her first book, The Bluest Eye, was published in 1970. We have hung on her every word and yearned for the guidance in her novels. Fittingly, she has acquired a heap of achievements including a Nobel Prize, Pulitzer Prize, and a Presidential Medal of Freedom. And she doesn’t seem to be slowing down in the poignant department as she approaches 84 glorious years of age. Her recent novel, God Save The Child, is just as richly detailed and meaningful as anything she’s ever written. It contains that lyrical voice that is so unique to Morrison: poetic, universal, sorrowful, and bold. We can’t even find the right words to describe Morrison’s craft, so we’ll just let her speak for herself. Here are ten times Toni Morrison delivered us insightful and unshakable truths:
1. “At some point in life the world's beauty becomes enough. You don't need to photograph, paint or even remember it. It is enough. No record of it needs to be kept and you don't need someone to share it with or tell it to. When that happens—that letting go—you let go because you can.” - Tar Baby
2. “Love is divine only and difficult always. If you think it is easy you are a fool. If you think it is natural you are blind. It is a learned application without reason or motive except that it is God.” - Paradise
3. “Anger ... it's a paralyzing emotion ... you can't get anything done. People sort of think it's an interesting, passionate, and igniting feeling—I don't think it's any of that—it's helpless ... it's absence of control—and I need all of my skills, all of the control, all of my powers ... and anger doesn't provide any of that—I have no use for it whatsoever.”- Interview with Don Swaim (1987)
4. “In order to be as free as I possibly can, in my own imagination, I can't take positions that are closed. Everything I've ever done, in the writing world, has been to expand articulation, rather than to close it, to open doors, sometimes, not even closing the book—leaving the endings open for reinterpretation, revisitation, a little ambiguity.”- Salon Interview (1998)
5. “Was there anything so loathsome as a wilfully innocent man? Hardly. An innocent man is a sin before God. Inhuman and therefore untrustworthy. No man should live without absorbing the sins of his kind, the foul air of his innocence, even if it did wilt rows of angel trumpets and cause them to fall from their vines.”-Tar Baby
6. “You do not deserve love regardless of the suffering you have endured. You do not deserve love because somebody did you wrong. You do not deserve love just because you want it. You can only earn—by practice and careful contemplations—the right to express it and you have to learn how to accept it.” - Paradise
7. “The idea of a wanton woman is something I have inserted into almost all of my books. An outlaw figure who is disallowed in the community because of her imagination or activity or status—that kind of anarchic figure has always fascinated me. And the benefits they bring with them, in spite of the fact that they are either dismissed or upbraided—something about their presence is constructive in the long run.”- O, The Oprah Magazine ( 2003)
8. “You need intelligence, and you need to look. You need a gaze, a wide gaze, penetrating and roving—thats what's useful for art.”- Interview with Don Swaim (1987)
9. “The ability of writers to imagine what is not the self, to familiarize the strange and mystify the familiar, is the test of their power.”- Black Matters (1992)
10. “She is a friend of my mind. She gather me, man. The pieces I am, she gather them and give them back to me in all the right order.”- Beloved
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Authors Jennifer Weiner & Emily Gould Show How To Channel Yourself On Social Media
If you, like us, live in NYC and love an event celebrating authors of every ilk, PEN DIY is totally worth checking out. Each month, PEN America Center hosts an author to speak o the craft of writing: “Building on oral traditions, parables, and the rich history of artists as unpretentious makers, PEN DIY celebrates how literature can be approachable yet unexpected, and how it can help us make sense of our lives.”
April’s PEN DIY, titled “How to be Authentic on Social Media,” will feature Jennifer Weiner, superstar author of novels such as Good in Bed, In Her Shoes, and All Fall Down (the paperback version of which is due out April 7th). Weiner is also a contributing writer for such publications as The New York Times.
Named one of Forbes’ “25 Working Moms to Follow on Twitter,” we’d say Weiner knows a thing or two about social media. Peep her profile for hilarious parental observations and live-tweet sessions of The Bachelor.
7 Female Musician Memoirs You Should Definitely Read
Driving with the windows down on a road trip, feeling the wind flipping through your hair, or curled up in a ball on your bed after a terrible break-up... there is one thing that probably remains the same: a musical soundtrack. The musicians who affect us the most are the ones who get us out of dark times, see us through, and allow us celebrate our joy. It’s a beautiful feeling to find a female musician who can be your confidant and cheerleader; whose work mirrors you and teaches you.
But sometimes our favorite musicians stop making music to pursue other careers. And how are we supposed to survive, left tirelessly playing old albums on repeat? By reading their memoirs! Here are 7 examples of female musicians' memoirs that we promise will feel just as spot on as their music. Enjoy!
M Train by Patti Smith (Will be released October 6th, 2015)
2. Girl In A Band by Kim Gordon
Coal Miner’s Daughter by Loretta Lynn
Rat Girl by Kristin Hersh
Celia: Mi Vida by Celia Cruz
6.In Her Own Words, Joni Mitchell
7. Coal to Diamonds by Beth Ditto
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See Why You're Going To Love Amber Tamblyn's New Book
Our lovely former BUST cover girl Amber Tamblyn has written some raw and thought provoking poems for her upcoming book, Dark Sparkler, out April 7th. The collection powerfully explores the lives of over twenty-five actresses who died before their time, including Marilyn Monroe, Jean Harlow, Sharon Tate, and Brittany Murphy. Want more? Take a look at Amber's interview with Janet Fitch in our latest issue and scroll down for book tour dates.
And check out Tamblyn reading her poem, "Jane Doe," for us below:
Image and video by Michael Lavine. Tour date information from amtam.com.
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