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We're bringing you this Q&A from the Sex Files in our March/April 2019 print issue, featuring advice from sexologist Dr. Carol Queen. My partner and I are interested in chastity play, but after a day or two the device slips off his genitalia. We’ve bought many devices and always find the same problem. Because he is a “grower,” the size of his penis can vary. Can you suggest a chastity device we can use for long-term play? –Locked Down and Loving It In order for you both...

  We're bringing you this Q&A from the Sex Files in our March/April 2019 print issue, featuring advice from sexologist Dr. Carol Queen. I can’t find any useful advice on how to best enjoy sex as a really thick-thighed individual. All I seem to hear is missionary, cowgirl, and doggy-style positions, and it’s hard to do doggy style when your partner’s dick is not long enough to compensate for the space your ass takes up. I don’t want to be limited to two positions, so what can...

  Unsure what to expect this March and April? Our astrologer Lisa Stardust's got you covered. Aries March 21 to April 19 March 20’s full moon will shine a light on your relationships. Avoid arguments around March 31, when feisty Mars will spur you to express your truest feelings—especially during the new moon on April 5. If your tongue slips, don’t worry! The full moon on April 19 and Venus’ alignment with your sun on April 20 will have you kissing and making up in no time. Taurus April 20 to...
Whether you’re into, against, or very neutral about Valentine’s Day, any excuse to learn more about sexual wellness and pleasure is a good one—and if you’re based in New York, Planned Parenthood and women-run clothing line Meg have a pop-up event tomorrow night that promises to be equal parts fun and informative, sponsored by two other women-owned organizations: sex toy brand Dame and sexual wellness company Sustain. Titled “Be Your Own Valentine: Sexual Wellness and Pleasure Panel,” the event will consist of panels on sex education and advocacy, pop-up shops selling...
  Any sex toy reviewer will tell you that the market is absolutely jam-packed with pricey new G-spot gadgets that are simply increasingly expensive variations on the same theme—which is why the new Bender from Unbound is actually remarkable. Priced at just $59, this slim pink silicon toy can be easily bent to stimulate your clit and G-spot simultaneously at whatever angle suits your anatomy best.  One of the hazards of experimenting with a new sensation like G-spotting is that not every toy is suitable for every body,...
We're bringing you this Q&A from the Sex Files in our January/February 2019 print issue, featuring advice from sexologist Dr. Carol Queen. I’ve enjoyed engaging in BDSM consensually for many years, but recently I have experienced multiple incidents that caused me sexual trauma. In one of those instances, when I asked the man why he didn’t stop after I told him to multiple times, he said that he thought I “meant it in a 50 Shades of Grey way.” I now have a consistent sexual partner...
We're bringing you this Q&A from the Sex Files in our January/February 2019 print issue, featuring advice from sexologist Dr. Carol Queen. My sex drive has really decreased since I turned 40. I'm easily distracted and it seems like it takes a miracle for me to orgasm. My partner is incredibly helpful but I'm just not getting there. I used to be very sexual and always orgasmed. I just want my orgasm back. — Feeling Old I wouldn't call you old, but you might be perimenopausal. One...
  For weekly helpings of smart, witchy goodness, look no further than The Serpent Cast, a podcast hosted by astrologer Annabel Gat and sex writer Sophie Saint Thomas. Gat (who writes horoscopes for VICE and Broadly) and Saint Thomas (who writes for GQ, Playboy, Allure, and more) are best friends whose casual conversations draw listeners in as they chat about everything from magick and mental health to Harry Potter and butt stuff. They also feature insightful interviews with fellow practitioners of all stripes, including BUST’s astrologer...

From our January/February 2019 issue, here's astrologer Sonia Ortiz's astrological advice for ladies looking to get laid:  CapricornDec. 22 to Jan. 19 It’s your month, Cap! The solar eclipse is in your sun sign, triggering major life decisions around relationships. It’s time to focus on yourself, even if that means some relationships fizzle. Jan. 11 gives you the confidence boost you need to implement growth and change, which will bring transformation by Jan. 18. Feb. 7 is the best love day of the month, so get your...

Charlene deGuzman wrote and stars in Unlovable (still image above), now streaming on Amazon, iTunes, and GooglePlay. Unlovable is a dramedy about a sex- and love-addicted woman who learns what real intimacy is when she starts making music with a reclusive man. It co-stars John Hawkes and Melissa Leo, was directed by Suzi Yoonessi, and is a Duplass Brothers production. Here, deGuzman shares a personal essay about her recovery from sex and love addiction.  Note: This piece describes suicidal ideation and self-harm. I was crying, shaking, and laughing all at the...