Letters To Our Tarot Queen Asking For Advice On All Of Life’s Little Fun Bits
I am feeling very unmotivated and unfulfilled in my current position. I am trying to figure out what I want to do or be, but I cannot seem to find what excites me. Where can I look and what can I do to help me find the answer?!
Dear Seeker,
First of all, I want to say: you are not alone. Feeling stuck, uncertain, or uninspired can feel heavy, but it’s also a potent sign that you’re standing at a sacred crossroads, a threshold moment where change is not just possible, but necessary.
When I pulled cards for you, I received the Six of Swords reversed, The Hanged Man reversed, and The Magician reversed.
Let’s dive into what your cards are revealing.
The Six of Swords reversed shows that you may be trying to move on from a situation that no longer serves you, but something—maybe it’s fear, guilt, or uncertainty—keeps tethering you back. It’s like you’re halfway into a new story but still gripping the old pages. Part of the work right now is giving yourself full permission to leave behind what isn’t resonating, even if you don’t know exactly where you’re heading yet. Trust that the unknown can be fertile ground, not just a void.
The Hanged Man reversed adds another layer: you’re being asked to surrender, but it feels like you’re resisting the pause. There’s a huge internal shift waiting for you, but you might be approaching it like it’s a problem to solve rather than a metamorphosis to surrender to. You don’t have to force an answer right now. You just have to be willing to be in the in-between for a little while longer. Let yourself hang suspended without judgment. Insight will come.
Finally, The Magician reversed reminds you: you already have everything you need inside you. The issue isn’t a lack of tools, talent, or opportunities; it’s a temporary disconnection from your own sense of power and possibility. Sometimes, when we’re overwhelmed or uninspired, we forget that we are the alchemists of our own lives. Small daily rituals to reconnect to your creativity and intuition, even things that feel silly or low-pressure, can be the spark you’re seeking. Magic isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s a whisper that builds over time.
You asked where you should look and the cards have responded: within. In what you loved as a child, in what you daydream about when you aren’t censoring yourself, in the little nudges you usually brush off. And as far as what to do? Give yourself permission to explore without demanding instant clarity. Try, tinker, play. Your next passion might not strike like lightning; it may emerge quietly, if you create space for it.
You are not lost, dear one. You are between worlds, and the new one is already waiting for you.
With love and magic,
Sarah Potter
As time passes, I am finding myself feeling more distanced from my close friend. Our priorities and responsibilities are changing and we are drifting apart. Calls and texts seem forced and we don’t live close enough to see each other in person. How can we reconnect? Or how do we know when it’s time to move on?
Dear Seeker,
Friendships, like any living thing, grow, shift, and sometimes even outgrow their original container. It’s tender, but it’s also natural and your cards are reflecting that beautifully.
For you, I pulled the Hierophant reversed, Four of Wands reversed, and Ace of Pentacles reversed.
The Hierophant reversed suggests that the foundation your friendship was built upon—shared routines, traditions, or life stages–is changing. What once felt aligned might now feel restrictive or outdated. You’re being invited to reexamine the “rules” and expectations of this relationship. Instead of trying to force things back to what they were, ask yourself: What would a new, authentic version of this connection look like? It may need different terms now…or it may be time to release it with love.
The Four of Wands reversed speaks to the sense of instability you’re feeling. Where there used to be an effortless sense of belonging, there’s now a wobble. It doesn’t mean there’s no love; it just means the structure isn’t supporting you both the way it once did. Sometimes we drift not because we’ve failed, but because we’re each being called to build new homes within ourselves.
The Ace of Pentacles reversed hints that continuing to invest energy into something that no longer feels reciprocal could drain you instead of nourish you. This card asks you to consider: Is there fertile soil here to plant something new? Or are you clinging to the memory of a garden that once was?
Is a reconnection possible? Only if it feels truly mutual, not out of obligation or nostalgia. Maybe it’s time for an honest conversation about where you each are now, without blame or pressure.
And regarding if it’s time to move on? If connection feels like a constant uphill climb rather than a natural exchange of energy, it might be time to honor what you shared, bless each other’s paths, and allow space for new relationships that align with who you’re becoming.
Remember: letting go isn’t a failure. It’s an act of love, both for them and for yourself.
With love and magic,
Sarah Potter
My significant other and I keep having the same argument time and time again. No matter how many times we discuss it, we seem to talk past each other. I love them very much but this is just exhausting. How can we come together to see and understand each other’s perspectives?
Dear Seeker,
First, let’s honor the fact that you want to bridge this gap; that is love in action. Still, love alone doesn’t always smooth over deeper misalignments, and your cards are offering clear insight into what’s happening beneath the surface.
For you, I pulled the Eight of Wands, Three of Pentacles reversed, and The Moon.
The Eight of Wands shows a powerful desire to move forward, to find resolution quickly, but real understanding isn’t something that can be rushed. It needs space to unfold naturally. There’s a sense that you both are firing words back and forth, but perhaps not truly landing in each other’s emotional landscapes.
The Three of Pentacles reversed points to a breakdown in collaboration. At its core, this card reversed asks: Are we actually working as a team, or are we clinging to our individual visions, hoping the other will just eventually agree? Right now, it seems less about winning the argument and more about rebuilding trust and shared goals. This might require bringing in a neutral third party—a therapist, a counselor, or a mediator—who can help translate the emotional subtext you’re both missing.
Finally, The Moon reveals that there are deeper fears, illusions, and unspoken emotions at play. You’re not just arguing about surface-level issues; you’re reacting to old wounds, anxieties, and uncertainties that live below the conversation. The Moon invites you to approach this with radical compassion, curiosity, and patience. It’s less about getting to a “right” answer and more about gently illuminating what’s been hidden in yourself, and in them.
Regarding how to come together? Slow down. Instead of rushing toward solutions, create space for feelings to be heard without judgment. Sometimes the most healing thing is simply saying, “I want to understand you. Help me see through your eyes.”
And if progress feels impossible? It may be time to ask yourselves whether you’re trying to build a future together with two completely different blueprints. Love can still exist even if compatibility needs re-evaluation.
You are courageous for wanting a deeper connection! Keep leading with your heart, but don’t forget to protect your peace too.
With love and magic,
Sarah Potter
