Sex

I was in a polyamorous relationship with a man and a woman, Nick and Jo. Polyamorous means the practice of having multiple partners with the consent of said partners. Conveniently enough, both of my partners were (and still are) dating each other, so in this particular situation the three of us were all dating each other. How did this happen? It began with a booze-filled night of me kissing Jo, knowing that she was dating Nick. I didn’t want to stop kissing Jo, and Jo...
Tantus Leisure Size: Kind of a banana? Shape: Child’s drawing of a penis Sound: Squelchy Strength: Ooof Satisfaction: We’ll talk Pairs with: A screwdriver The Tantus Leisure is a dildo for beginners. It’s long and thin and smooth and you can probably put it into any opening you want to with little trouble. It’s harness- and suction cup-friendly, so it’s super versatile, but the fact is, I have about as much interest in this dildo as I do in baseball (so basically, only if it’s portrayed...
An iconic masturbation scene from "Girls" Masturbation, from the Latin mas and turbate. Mas meaning hand and turbate meaning to stir-up. So, the word masturbate literally means to stir yourself up with your hand. The word chronic means constant and habitual, continuing for years, having a long habit or disease.I have been stirring my myself up with my hand chronically for the last 45 years. It started off as an itch that could not be scratched into submission. It was never ending; day in and day out. Rub, rub, and more rubbing. I kneaded...
Advertising itself as “your most personal trainer,” the Elvie takes the idea of wearable technology to the next level. It’s an insertable silicon-covered Kegel tracker that helps users strengthen their pelvic floor muscles by registering the power of each vaginal squeeze and sending that info via Bluetooth to a smartphone app. Doing Kegel exercises is important because a strong pelvic floor protects women from bladder problems and some kinds of sexual dysfunction. But would a video game I could play with my love tunnel improve my...
The OhMiBod Lovelife Discover Size: A roll of Mentos Shape: Sailor Moon’s wand Sound: A happy bee Strength: Sugar-high sixth graders playing an agonizing game of footsie Satisfaction: Does the trick! Pairs with: A vodka-cream soda, a drink that I threw up multiple times at a bar called the Boobie Trap :-) From third grade to sixth grade, I burned through three pairs of hot pink Chuck Taylor hi-tops, the kind Hilary Duff wears in A Cinderella Story. My Chucks, I knew, were feminine and sophisticated...
With the exception of condoms, birth control is usually the burden of sexually active women. But surveys show that at least half of U.S. men would use a contraceptive themselves, and recent biotech advances are creating options more effective and comfortable than condoms. For men who want more control over conception, and couples who may want to double up for extra pregnancy protection, this is big news. Here are three standout prospects on the sexual health horizon. 1. GENDARUSSA The Gendarussa team at Airlangga University in...

  In Skins, Katie Fitch goes through premature menopause. Q: Any advice for young women facing menopause? I had a radical hysterectomy two years ago at 38 due to uterine cancer. Overall, I feel good, but sex has been a challenge! I’m not allowed to take HRT (hormone replacement therapy), and lubes don’t quite cut it when it comes to vaginal sex. Since my surgery, I’m nervous about penetration, and that just makes things worse. I can’t find support groups and don’t know anyone in a similar...

This ode to the clitoris that will walk you through the history of oppressing clit-knowledge. This magical little button has 8,000 sensory nerve endings and it is only there to make ladies feel very, very good—perhaps why it is rarely spoken of. Throughout time, the man has shrouded the clit in mystery, erased it from textbooks and simply ignored it. Refinery 29 teamed up with Dorian Electra to make this sexy and informative clit-positive music video.    More from BUST The Clitoris Is Having A Moment Thanks To...
  Q: My boyfriend likes to pee in my vagina, and I like it too. Are they any ill effects I should watch out for? Will it upset the pH of my vadge?–Big PeezyCarol Queen: For a very long time, we all thought urine was sterile. But recent research has suggested that certain kinds of bacteria can live in urine. Scientists are investigating whether this is simply a normal situation—if everyone has a certain urine bacteria level as we do in the gut, for instance. If your boyfriend...
Emma Watson has dedicated much of her adult life advocating for women. This does not exclude female sexual pleasure. The female orgasm is kinda like the Tooth Fairy for many women. A fantasy originating from a dream-world. The general concept of the Tooth Fairy seems magical and lovely, but verifying any technical and dependable existence proves tedious. Finding the Tooth Fairy is an exercise in frustration. And morning-after evidence can be fleeting at best. If you’re wondering if female sexual pleasure has forgotten about...