So I posted an ad on Craigslist, mostly because I was bored. Long story short, I got a ton of replies, and I'm just starting to meet some of the responders. I just met my second guy yesterday, and we totally hit it off...but I'm not sensing any chemistry.
I felt the same way with my lab partner. I work with someone who would be a really good guy to have a relationship with. We like the same things, which is pretty rare since our tastes are pretty eclectic. BUT it just feels wrong to be pursuing him.
Why is it that I see guys mostly as friend material? I'm trying to think if it's because I'm still guarding myself over my first relationship - it was pretty good as far as relationships and breakups go, but I've spent the last 2 years reinventing myself and maybe I'm just not ready to let my indepedence go yet? Or maybe I just haven't met the right guy?