Hello all, I am new to this site, so glad that I found a place where I can talk about sex and what it involves. I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now, we really hit it off, he is amazing and I am so comfortable with him. I told him that I am not ready for sex yet and he is very understanding and is going at my pace. I certainly am not ready for sex at all, I feel that I need to get to know myself and my sensitive areas before I give myself to him. He is ready though, if I would consent to sex he would have taken me a long time ago. He has read up on Women and how to satisfy them and he said to me that I am calling the shots in this relationship.
Last night he was over and I was lying on him and he started getting hard, I couldnt touch him because it would just make it worse. We are both practicing restraint, its hard though.
How can I tell him that I want to be in love with the man that I am with before I give myself to him completely, because that is what I want, I dont want to have sex just so I can lose my virginity and because he is willing oh so willing, I want the relationship to go on for a few months and I want us to be in love with each other.
I also am looking into buying a vibrator so I can stimulate my clit and G-spot, Ive never been able to otherwise, any advice on where to start, I have looked online and found a couple that I think I would like, is it better to buy online or to go to an adult superstore and buy them off the shelf.
I hope that any of you can help me out, I have been doing a lot of research and I plan on continuing to read up on everything there is to know about relationships and sex. Thanks a bunch in advance!!