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ritzyreese
post Apr 25 2006, 10:58 PM
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Kalevra
post Sep 26 2006, 01:09 PM
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Hiya Filthyrabbit tongue.gif erm dirtybunny

Yep, you are gonna have to talk to him, but remember always:

MEN DO NOT GET HINTS!

you are going to have to be direct, yep, just come out and say it,...say what you have to say sincerely......do not involve emotions when you speak to him; no crying, no high pitched voice, no angst-ridden querying....ok? See, the thing is, men do enjoy the chase, it is part of our instinct, and when everything is given to us on a plate, we get bored.....it's not bored of you, it's not bored of sex...it is a lack of challenge.....and make some subtle hints at odd time's of the day....unexpectedly.....send him a text while you are at work...'I am so hornyHONRY right now, I am craving you inside me' or something like that....see what sort of reaction you get...if it is HO-HUM or some shit like that.....well then, you might be destined to be FRIENDS as per KatieBelle over there.

I am guilty of being a little 'distant' in a relationship once...partly due to work stuff that was getting me down, too many hobbies as well as some light criticism I got from her sometimes...but after some communication...we got over it, and found some renewed drive....

You say you have a better time by yourself?......try this, have a great time by yourself.......while he is in the bed next to you....see what he thinks of that!.....I am prepared to wager $20 he has a total headspin and pounces you!

*this is my opinion, any use of the above advice is done at your own risk* laugh.gif

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