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ananke
post Apr 28 2006, 03:21 AM
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I'm going to a candle lighting ceremony next week for victims of DV. I'm a little scared. Therapy has been better but more difficult. I'm making progress but some days I just want to hide.
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nohope
post Jun 22 2006, 05:11 AM
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Stopping Violence Against Women: Eve Ensler and Kimberle Crenshaw on V-Day, Women in Prisons and Breaking the Silence

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http://www.democracynow.org/article.pl?sid=06/06/21/142227

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http://ia300202.us.archive.org/1/items/dn2006-0621/dn2006-0621-1_64kb.mp3
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ananke   Survivor's Space   Apr 28 2006, 03:21 AM
pixiedust   Survivor's Space   May 23 2006, 12:46 PM
kittenb   Survivor's Space   May 24 2006, 10:31 AM
nohope   Survivor's Space   Jun 22 2006, 05:11 AM
kittenb   Survivor's Space   Jun 22 2006, 10:35 AM
pixiedust   Survivor's Space   Jun 22 2006, 11:44 AM
maddy29   Survivor's Space   Jun 22 2006, 04:31 PM
hummingbird   Survivor's Space   Jun 22 2006, 05:18 PM
erinjane   Survivor's Space   Jun 22 2006, 08:46 PM
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maddy29   Survivor's Space   Jul 6 2006, 01:19 PM
hummingbird   Survivor's Space   Jul 6 2006, 01:37 PM
ananke   Survivor's Space   Jul 7 2006, 01:39 AM
cstars124   [font=Comic Sans Ms]I just have a question for eve...   Jul 11 2006, 10:44 AM
ananke   My rape was very similar. He didn't say it was...   Jul 13 2006, 02:05 AM
maddy29   yep that's rape. he raped you. no two ways ab...   Jul 26 2006, 08:25 AM
cstars124   I'm sorry maddy. :( Is there any type of hypn...   Jul 26 2006, 09:57 AM
maddy29   um, you were in shock? that's why you didn...   Jul 26 2006, 10:06 AM
cstars124   We were in an argument at his apartment and for so...   Jul 26 2006, 10:28 AM
pixiedust   I personally think it is harder to be raped or abu...   Jul 26 2006, 10:35 AM
maddy29   also, friends that don't believe you aren...   Jul 26 2006, 10:56 AM
cstars124   I don't think it's a crazy idea. I've ...   Jul 26 2006, 11:09 AM
maddy29   now i've got myself all riled up. i happened ...   Jul 26 2006, 02:09 PM
erinjane   cstars, I deal a lot with the 'why didn't ...   Jul 26 2006, 02:28 PM
maddy29   such a great point EJ! although i imagine a l...   Jul 26 2006, 04:22 PM
pixiedust   Don't ever think yourself crazy maddy. I have...   Jul 26 2006, 04:33 PM
maddy29   thanks pixie :) it's true, i was like 7 when ...   Jul 27 2006, 08:31 AM
kittenb   A few weeks ago I was speaking in front of several...   Jul 31 2006, 07:31 AM
maddy29   Ok kittenb, i'll mention it-FMSF :) Yep, I ch...   Jul 31 2006, 09:19 AM
kittenb   The DNA backlog is still a problem. The funding ju...   Jul 31 2006, 09:40 AM
gumby_cc   Sorry to just jump in. I'm a long time lurker ...   Aug 1 2006, 09:28 PM
maddy29   oh gumby, i'm SO sorry. that's totally su...   Aug 2 2006, 09:57 AM
kittenb   gumby_cc that's a horrible position to be put ...   Aug 2 2006, 11:20 AM
gumby_cc   maddy, i can't even imagine standing in front ...   Aug 2 2006, 06:59 PM
ananke   A very very eeerily similar thing happened to me. ...   Aug 3 2006, 04:16 AM
maddy29   yeah, the truth is, you're right to be afraid ...   Aug 3 2006, 07:10 AM
cstars124   gumby, I was raped by someone i was dating too. An...   Aug 3 2006, 08:17 AM
maddy29   it's interesting how many of us were hurt by p...   Aug 3 2006, 08:27 AM
cstars124   hey maddy, did you ever go to the police or anythi...   Aug 3 2006, 09:42 AM
maddy29   there's a statue of limitations, for people wi...   Aug 3 2006, 11:37 AM
kittenb   Having worked at an HMO for 18 months, I can say r...   Aug 3 2006, 11:50 AM
cstars124   I'm sorry. Unfortunately, I think there's ...   Aug 3 2006, 11:51 AM
maddy29   yeah, i mean i'm supposed to sit there in cour...   Aug 3 2006, 12:13 PM
gumby_cc   haaha, well, my other therapist thinks I have PTSD...   Aug 4 2006, 04:15 AM
cstars124   I have a question for everybody. Has anyone actua...   Aug 4 2006, 06:31 AM
maddy29   verbally? yikes, that's fucking scary. i did ...   Aug 4 2006, 08:11 AM
cstars124   I don't think you're a crazy big liar, mad...   Aug 4 2006, 08:53 AM
maddy29   oh my god cstars. ok, i have a MUCH better underst...   Aug 4 2006, 01:50 PM
cstars124   Well, i'm sure if I told my parents, they woul...   Aug 4 2006, 02:42 PM
maddy29   cstars-how old are you? that sucks that your sist...   Aug 4 2006, 04:05 PM
cstars124   I'm 22. My parents would definitely help me ...   Aug 4 2006, 05:32 PM
maddy29   yeah, i kinda know what you mean. if you put it ou...   Aug 4 2006, 07:31 PM
erinjane   I've never confronted my rapist verbally eithe...   Aug 4 2006, 09:29 PM
gumby_cc   Maddy, I can't imagine how difficult it must h...   Aug 6 2006, 05:49 AM
kittenb   I remember when I was in my first group therapy ti...   Aug 6 2006, 07:46 AM
treehugger   Hi. So I'm just popping in. Maybe to introdu...   Aug 6 2006, 05:09 PM
kittenb   Welcome, treehugger! Thanks for the mojitos. ...   Aug 7 2006, 08:46 AM
ananke   I have been insanely furious this week. Just const...   Aug 8 2006, 02:00 AM
datagirl   For the umpteenth time I am so grateful for this t...   Aug 8 2006, 08:43 PM
catwomyn   Oh man. That is so sad what happened to your famil...   Aug 9 2006, 09:42 AM
treehugger   I hope Treehugger is still here too, and feels l...   Aug 15 2006, 03:10 PM
datagirl   Thankyou Catwomyn, Hugs to all survivers here. ...   Aug 9 2006, 06:07 PM
kittenb   At the risk of sounding melodramatic, realizing th...   Aug 10 2006, 12:09 PM
datagirl   I have no idea how myself or any of the other surv...   Aug 10 2006, 05:36 PM
maddy29   omg datagirl-i've been on vacation for the wee...   Aug 15 2006, 12:51 PM
maddy29   hey datagirl-how are you holding up? just checki...   Aug 23 2006, 11:55 AM
ananke   BREAK THROUGH! For the first time since I was...   Aug 25 2006, 01:59 AM
cstars124   Yay, ananke! That's awesome. Congrats...   Aug 25 2006, 06:49 AM
kittenb   cstars124 - at the risk of sounded like a cliched ...   Aug 25 2006, 09:58 PM
hummingbird   I have come to accept that a lot of my feelings do...   Aug 27 2006, 05:19 AM
erinjane   I'm feeling really angry lately. I just did m...   Aug 27 2006, 09:41 PM
maddy29   wtf? forgive him? why? maybe if he changes his lif...   Aug 28 2006, 11:16 AM
erinjane   I know. On other message boards I've seen peo...   Aug 28 2006, 02:21 PM
datagirl   Hugs to all survivors(((()))))) I've been her...   Aug 28 2006, 08:36 PM
maddy29   erinjane, that makes me feel so sad. all of us ar...   Aug 29 2006, 08:58 AM
hummingbird   erinjane, I go through periods where I am so ragef...   Aug 30 2006, 07:43 AM
erinjane   I love this thread. :) Just wanted to say though,...   Aug 30 2006, 09:46 AM
deschatsrouge   delurk: My rape counselor never told me to forgiv...   Aug 30 2006, 10:25 AM
kittenb   maddy - reporting times will depend on the statute...   Sep 3 2006, 12:44 AM
kittenb   I repeat, my anger is the ONE thing that I get to ...   Sep 3 2006, 11:48 AM
erinjane   Could someone tell me how to ignore? I haven...   Sep 3 2006, 12:40 PM
kittenb   I WANT TO BE ABLE TO IGNORE CERTAIN POSTERS You ca...   Sep 3 2006, 12:51 PM
kittenb   Okay, it really does work, although I still get no...   Sep 3 2006, 12:54 PM
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