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KeraBear
post Mar 1 2012, 11:25 PM
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QUOTE(DeeRayy @ Feb 29 2012, 08:00 PM) *
betty dodson and carlin ross discussed my question on their web show!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHzfYwSfOJg...mp;feature=plcp


Wowy, you are becoming quite the web sensation, aren't you? smile.gif. i do agree with pretty much all that they said though. Especially that bit about how when he is... umm... into you... he is most likely not being critical of anything about you. He's just haopy to be there! Plus he DID orgasm after getting hus hands on those hot lil booblets of yours, no? Just sayin'... oh yea and btw major props to those two for doing what they do. i mean i can't see myself putting myself out there on youtube telling the world about how my nipples are hardwired to my clitoris (even though its sorta true lol). Now that takes some serious balls!

Skindeep - any new updates on you and your bf?? That reminds me soooooo much of my senior year in HS when i came onto this board in tears after discovering porn on my exes computer. I went on to check my email and instead found these tall, busty, curvy NEKKID blondes staring back at me. I was devastated!! Not just because they were other women, but mostly cuz they were the opposite of my short, smallie non blonde self. I cried myself to sleep that night. sad.gif But if anything good came out of it,it forced us to talk about stuff like that and got it out in the open. i was foolish to think that he wouldn't look at porn. i mean most teen boys do. But still it broke my heart. sad.gif PM me if you wanna pick my brain about it.
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post Feb 29 2012, 08:00 PM
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betty dodson and carlin ross discussed my question on their web show!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHzfYwSfOJg...mp;feature=plcp
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discowombat
post Feb 25 2012, 11:09 AM
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:-) I'm so happy for you. I understand where you are coming from and any progress is great!

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DeeRayy
post Feb 24 2012, 11:00 PM
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hey guys!
just popped in to share some nice news. i was able to semi-remove my bra in front of my fwb last night! We were going about things as usual, and while i was on top of him he started feeling me up through my bra. and i was caught up in the moment, so i unhooked my bra and placed his hands underneath the cups of my bra so he could feel my actual boobs. i have no idea what his expression was like during all this (the lights were off), but he ended up pulling me towards him so our bodies were pressed together, and it was a really nice feeling (my bra was essentiall hanging from my torso at this point). i still had to put it back on right away when we switched positions, but i'm really glad i was able to make a little progress! and to make things even better, he was able to orgasm for the first time in like, a month despite his ed problems he's been having! so overall it was a really nice experience. i still would never let him actually SEE them, but i feel like i made a breakthrough last night smile.gif
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post Feb 24 2012, 10:37 PM
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Not to change the subject, but I got my bras from The Little Bra Company and gave them a test run. I ordered Lucia, which is considered to be their standard sized bra, in 3 different sizes to see what worked best since I'm not used to having options. For reference I am 5'3" 110 lbs (26" underbust, 30.5" overbust) and suspected that I should be wearing a 28B in non-petite sizes based on how my previous bras fit. I generally ignore the old "add 4-5 inches" rule because it has never worked for me.

Verdict: Little Bra Company runs small in the band & a little small in the cup because they are sized for petite and/or small framed people. I ended up going with the 30B and I have to wear it on the loosest hook. The band still felt a little tight on my first wear, but it might just be because I'm just used to my bras being too big. I expect that it will stretch a bit after a few wears as all bras are apt to do. The cups are very close together and contain some angled padding which did nice things for my boobs despite Lucia not being a pushup bra. There's more padding in there than I'm used to but it doesn't look or feel ridiculous. It's actually really comfortable and my boobs more or less stay where I put them even when I move around. Time will tell, but they seem pretty well made and the lace actually lays really smoothly so it doesn't show under shirts. Considering that I usually have to spend $30 just to find something that's close to my proper size, it's worth the extra cost for these. Assuming this first one holds up well, I will definitely be buying more the next time I find a coupon code/sale.

If anyone has any questions feel free to ask.
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post Feb 23 2012, 02:31 PM
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Oh skindeep, you poor thing! I can only imagine how you feel... I mean, I once had an ex comment on women with big breasts and I felt so self conscious, I really never got over it when I was with him... but I was younger. Good thing is, the self consciousness was only with him, if any other guy shows interest in me or makes good comments about my breasts, I don't doubt their sexiness.

What your boyfriend did was douchey. But, as much as I hate this expression, "boys will be boys". It's no excuse, though. It was disrespectful, and he will have to understand that. But please remember it has NOTHING to do with you... please, please, PLEASE remember that you're a BEAUTIFUL, SEXY woman. Don't let his comments interfere with how you see yourself, I've been there and it's the worst form of self-sabotage one can get trapped into when it comes to body image. I know it's really hard, but remember that who you are is not defined by anyone else's comments or opinions but your own.

I find it so pathetic that society has encouraged this "boys will be boys" mentality in men (and some women, too). The idea that men are supposed to objectify women because it's the "manly" thing to do, which I find so stupid. And many guys do follow that just to "belong". I find it so sad, because in many cases, guys truly don't mean what they say or post and they just do it in order to seem "manly", which is really sad because they allow peer pressure to get the best of them. Whenever I come across a respectful guy who doesn't follow this "pack mentality", I'm just overjoyed. Sadly, they're hard to find.

I think men do get a clue, but much later in life. Hang in there skindeep. You have to decide how you handle this, and your boyfriend better gives you the time and understanding you need for this. But like I said, please remember that his behavior is no reflection of you. You rock, you're sexy and beautiful. Own it!
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skindeep1991
post Feb 21 2012, 01:46 PM
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QUOTE(karategrrl @ Feb 21 2012, 05:48 PM) *
Now, I say the following not as an excuse for his behavior, but hopefully to help you out of your funk a little. Remember that "online" is a very safe, anonymous place where people often do and say things they otherwise would not and; guys in particular are prone to the male "pack" syndrome, where he may say things to go along with the crowd (even an online one) and feel like one of the guys (asshole guys, yes...but he wants to belong). So keep in mind that his asinine comments are no reflection of YOU, your worth, or sexiness.

Right now I would like to slap him but you say he has redeeming qualities so I trust that. Just lookin' out for my fellow busties and feeling protective!! mad.gif wink.gif


Thank you karate it's funny you say that because that's what my mother said and when I asked him why he even said 'I don't know I was just showing off for comments, I didn't mean them' ...but he must have meant them to some extent because the thought wouldn't have crossed his mind to say it anyway. He spent hours crying to me last night about how he's 'sorry' and about how he doesn't want to lose me. I told him that I need time to calm down and think about things because at the moment I feel like everything he's ever told me about my body being gorgeous, about loving me the way I am and about how there's no one else for him is a massive lie.
And you know the breast comments he made, those are the ones that hurt me the worst. I cant believe he did it, I honestly would have bet my life that he wouldn't have done this. I was always telling people how amazing he is to me and about how comfortable I am with him . I know it's a cliche the whole ' I never expected it from him ' but I really didn't he's the crying type usually really shy and I had to kiss him first. I just feel so betrayed right now.

To be honest I just keep thinking about what is wrong with me for these things to happen, there must be something wrong with me if a nice guy that claims he loves me and talks about wanting to move in with me will do these things.

I dunno, It's not been a very good few days.

Thank you so much for your kind words though

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karategrrl
post Feb 21 2012, 12:48 PM
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Hey hey, sending special love to you, Skindeep. Forgive my being a little blunt, but if I may be so bold, it seems like:

1. He's acting like a bit of a douchebag (notice I didn't say he IS one; he's acting like one)
2. You have the right to be hurt
3. You don't have to apologize for the way you feel or make excuses for him.
4. This is less about "your insecurities" and more about your right to be treated with respect.

I admit I have a big problem with the "he'd never cheat" thing. Sure, lots of men would never actually insert their penis into another woman's vagina but they do a whole host of other shit that is inappropriate, disrespectful and just plain not right. Being monogamous is more than just not cheating--it's having respect for your partner, your relationship and their gender in general.

I also have a biiiiig fucking problem with women expected to be "secure" and "confident" in the face of their partners doing disrespectful shit. You are reacting in a completely understandable way, my girl. There is nothing wrong with YOU! An interesting way to test this theory is to flip the situation around. You say he's bothered when you post pics of hot guys, but he expects you to be unaffected by all he's doing? Would he flip if you were looking at pics of big cocks and posting, "Awesome fucking COCK!"?

The fact that you've posted pics of guys just to get back at him sounds like a cry for help, a desperate attempt to make him feel what you feel, when all other logical, grownup attempts to make him understand where you are coming from fail. I know--I've been there! So don't apologize for that, either.

Now, I say the following not as an excuse for his behavior, but hopefully to help you out of your funk a little. Remember that "online" is a very safe, anonymous place where people often do and say things they otherwise would not and; guys in particular are prone to the male "pack" syndrome, where he may say things to go along with the crowd (even an online one) and feel like one of the guys (asshole guys, yes...but he wants to belong). So keep in mind that his asinine comments are no reflection of YOU, your worth, or sexiness.

Right now I would like to slap him but you say he has redeeming qualities so I trust that. Just lookin' out for my fellow busties and feeling protective!! mad.gif wink.gif
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skindeep1991
post Feb 20 2012, 05:30 PM
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Oh and to make the whole thing worse he commented pictures of a girls large breasts saying 'beautiful fucking titts' I don't know what to do I've been in a state
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post Feb 20 2012, 01:17 PM
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QUOTE(KeraBear @ Feb 20 2012, 06:06 PM) *
Good idea. I hope it works out!!! Or you could just do what Skindeep is doing and skip the bras entirely? Save money at least. lol


haha yeah its the cheaper way...although unintentional. Just get a puppy they save the money for you haha.

I've had a very VERY bad past 10 minutes D= ... My boyfriend left himself logged into this website he goes on and out of curiosity i wanted to see what kind of things he likes looking at. Anyway I found him posting comments about other girls saying things like 'she's so hot' about some other guys girlfriend and some stupid pictures of famous girls he's like 'i'd destroy that so hard that there wouldn't be any fillings left" and now I feel like shit.
I know he wouldn't cheat but I'm extremely insecure when it comes to boyfriends and he's gone and made me feel like shit. Things were going so well, so passively aggressively I posted pictures of hot buff topless guys on my tumblr cause he hates it when I do. I feel like shit now I dunno what to do =[. I know this is crazy but I have trust issues due to previous relationships as I'm sure a lot of you understand and my insecurities have all come flying back, especially cause I was thinking of how happy I am with him and how he makes me feel better about myself. I'm just really upset.
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KeraBear
post Feb 20 2012, 01:06 PM
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QUOTE(discowombat @ Feb 20 2012, 12:13 AM) *
Well, I finally ordered from The Little Bra Company. Considering that I've never had a bra that fits properly in the first place & the petite sizing complicates it further, I just ordered a small range of the same style with the intention of finding my proper size and returning the ones that don't work. When I get them I'll let you guys know what I think. I really hope one of them works out. I kind of feel like this place is my last hope!


Good idea. I hope it works out!!! Or you could just do what Skindeep is doing and skip the bras entirely? Save money at least. lol
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post Feb 20 2012, 12:53 PM
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QUOTE(skindeep1991 @ Feb 18 2012, 10:39 AM) *
YAY that's great news!!! How did you feel about it and how did he take it, is there a second date planned? =D you go girl!!!


Well, at first i was a little self conscious yea and at first i did think about it a lot. But then as the evenign wore on and on, i was thinking about it less and less. He seemed to take it well. I mean he didn't say anything about it. I am glad too because i would've turned a million shades of red! And it's not like i was gonna ask. lol He said that he had a great time and wanted to do it again. But that was like a few weeks ago and the we've been out together with a group and that's it. Does that count? Now i am not so sure. unsure.gif

QUOTE(skindeep1991 @ Feb 18 2012, 10:39 AM) *
I've let my boobies run free recently and seeing as my dog ate my favorite padded bra and my other one hurts my nipples cause of the piercings at the moment I'm going unpadded too...it feels great actually. I recommend it to all of the busties.


Niiiiice!!! I rarely do that, except for when i am at home i like to set them free. lol Since you have piercings though, doesn't that draw MORE attention to your boobs? Not that that's a bad thing i guess, because booblets are hot. wink.gif Have you gotten any comments? Your dog ate your bra??? LOL!

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but recently I've realized that my weight issue has a lot to do with my boobies. Because my breasts are on the smaller side of small, it means that my tummy pokes out further than them... Now I think if I had bigger breasts that I probably wouldn't have so much of an issue with my weight, but seeing as I've learned to love my boobies and I constantly make jokes about them and talk openly about them opposed to making them something to be ashamed of I guess I will either have to step up the exercise or embrace the fact that my breasts will never ever EVER stick out further than my belly...EVER. *sigh*


awwwwwwww sorry to hear that you are struggling. sad.gif Yeah... i guess you will have to learn to embrace it. All sorts of tummys can be cute though. Maybe get a belly button ring to dress it up a lil? smile.gif

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also Dee you can't blame yourself for this, if he's never had problems before then you know it's not you...I think sometimes as a self conscious girl you're willing to see the negatives in yourself rather than the positive and when something happens like that you automatically twist it so you take it personally and make it something negative about you. I think you're fantastic and you should think of the awesome things you have, you're beautiful and you should be confident about that as for this fwb...he's probably feeling REALLY self conscious about this issue also as I know guys get easily self conscious about there man parts.


Took the words right outta my mouth!! But yea, i second this. It's not you. I'm sure of it.
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post Feb 20 2012, 12:13 AM
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Well, I finally ordered from The Little Bra Company. Considering that I've never had a bra that fits properly in the first place & the petite sizing complicates it further, I just ordered a small range of the same style with the intention of finding my proper size and returning the ones that don't work. When I get them I'll let you guys know what I think. I really hope one of them works out. I kind of feel like this place is my last hope!
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post Feb 18 2012, 10:39 AM
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QUOTE(KeraBear @ Feb 16 2012, 01:34 PM) *
omg me toooooooo... way to bring a lil small boobie love back to the board, karategrrl!! Not much has been going on in my life... well, except i went on a date recently! *giggles like a school girl* It was notable because I did something i've never done before - it was the FIRST first date where I didn't wear a padded bra. Yep, all natural Kerabear. smile.gif


YAY that's great news!!! How did you feel about it and how did he take it, is there a second date planned? =D you go girl!!!

I've let my boobies run free recently and seeing as my dog ate my favorite padded bra and my other one hurts my nipples cause of the piercings at the moment I'm going unpadded too...it feels great actually. I recommend it to all of the busties.

but recently I've realized that my weight issue has a lot to do with my boobies. Because my breasts are on the smaller side of small, it means that my tummy pokes out further than them... Now I think if I had bigger breasts that I probably wouldn't have so much of an issue with my weight, but seeing as I've learned to love my boobies and I constantly make jokes about them and talk openly about them opposed to making them something to be ashamed of I guess I will either have to step up the exercise or embrace the fact that my breasts will never ever EVER stick out further than my belly...EVER. *sigh*

also Dee you can't blame yourself for this, if he's never had problems before then you know it's not you...I think sometimes as a self conscious girl you're willing to see the negatives in yourself rather than the positive and when something happens like that you automatically twist it so you take it personally and make it something negative about you. I think you're fantastic and you should think of the awesome things you have, you're beautiful and you should be confident about that as for this fwb...he's probably feeling REALLY self conscious about this issue also as I know guys get easily self conscious about there man parts.

I love you all ^.^
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post Feb 16 2012, 09:52 PM
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QUOTE(KeraBear @ Feb 16 2012, 08:34 AM) *
it was the FIRST first date where I didn't wear a padded bra. Yep, all natural Kerabear. smile.gif


Yay!! This also makes me very happy.
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post Feb 16 2012, 08:34 AM
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QUOTE(karategrrl @ Feb 16 2012, 07:30 AM) *
Helllloooooo all you hotties!!!

I've been off the board for so long--just up to my ass in life--but awesome to see things rockin' here!


omg me toooooooo... way to bring a lil small boobie love back to the board, karategrrl!! Not much has been going on in my life... well, except i went on a date recently! *giggles like a school girl* It was notable because I did something i've never done before - it was the FIRST first date where I didn't wear a padded bra. Yep, all natural Kerabear. smile.gif
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post Feb 16 2012, 08:20 AM
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QUOTE(JanetteNixon @ Feb 1 2012, 05:18 AM) *
Oh my!
You're right!
Let's have a dinner.
You know you love me.
XOXO
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Wait... what?

QUOTE(JanetteNixon @ Feb 1 2012, 05:18 AM) *
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post Feb 16 2012, 07:30 AM
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Helllloooooo all you hotties!!!

I've been off the board for so long--just up to my ass in life--but awesome to see things rockin' here!

Skindeep, I am going to check out the link to those photos--the preview in my browser looked hot!!!

And discowombat, OMG, that Photoshop thing was awesome!!!! I am SO posting that on Facebook!

Love you guys!
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Oh my!
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Let's have a dinner.
You know you love me.
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post Jan 31 2012, 12:05 AM
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thanks strongirl and secretsights, i really needed to read those responses. i think i've just been feeling more self conscious than usual lately because my fwb seems to be dealing with some form of erectile dysfunction and it can really wreak havoc on my confidence. i can't help but get self conscious when the guy i'm sleeping with loses his erection all the time =/. he gets frustrated too and i know you're not supposed to take it personally when that happens to a guy but it's hard not to feel unattractive when that happens.
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