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ginger_kitty
post Jun 24 2006, 05:00 PM
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Tatina,hahaha! But I completely agree with that study!


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cloverbee
post Jun 24 2006, 04:22 PM
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tatina, you are my hero for posting that!!!!!!!!!
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tatina
post Jun 24 2006, 09:15 AM
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Just a thought - a US study from the 90ties showed a clear connection between a man's IQ and his preference for small breast. The higher his intelligence and the better his education, the more he will fancy women with small boobs. I never trusted men who are big-boob-maniacs and fetishists... and I would not change my body for them. Uaarghhh!
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post Jun 24 2006, 06:58 AM
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okay, i am thinking this is a gripe. that in this world, that if there WERE more bras designed for us, this would be alot easier. as a 34A-AAA (depends on the manufacturer), my concerns for wearing a bra in the first place are 1. Not support 2. Nipple coverage, because even if you are completely flat, it is still not considered business appropriate to show nipple! so if you are making a bra for such a figure, why would you make a sheer 34AAA bra? The best bra for this purpose I ever got was in the teen section of Target completely by accident, just a plain white bra with a smooth gentle contour cup - not a pad, and not just a shortened shirred camisole. *confused* please help me understand ***aaaaaaaaaahhhhhh*** Thank You for listening to this interruption. Back to regular board support
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modegirl
post Jun 24 2006, 06:38 AM
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thanks for that site suffering-that's the first one that i've seen that actually caters to small chested women. alot of them will "carry" smaller sizes but that usually means a few styles in AA and not all the band sizes (hey and they're usually british too!) why is that?

chic, thanks for sharing your story. it takes alot to be out there with the conflict yet still be ok with it. i also have alot of conflict too. at times, i have dabbled with breast growth type therapies, but would never contemplate surgery - while i support others to make a choice for themselves, i shudder when i think of the physical risks and maintenance that is required. i have been on a few bulletin boards for hours poring over posts with other women who are thinking the same as me. some women actually had some successes! it was always disheartening when someone announced they were tired of trying different things that might not work and would go get surgery :-( i have not ruled out the possibility of natural bust enhancement, but it's really a question of priorities, and how you want to spend your time. i finally found a method that would probably work, but would take a commitment of 3 hours a day for probably 6 months. at 38, being with petite boobies matter alot less to me; only a niggin sensation when i'm in a situation where i think of what might going on in other people's minds (read some formal event and everyone is wearing a strapless gown- uh, not me...); when it comes down to it - you have no idea what they are thinking lol. most of the time, i'm really glad - no support issues when exercising, riding on bumpy roads, etc.

anyways, i just think it's normal to have conflict and still be ok. it's not like the world outside us changed; pressure to fit in continues. we just have to work on what's ok for us on a continual basis :-) in the U.S. the models continue to be no less skinny, but their breasts seem to be getting bigger -not proportionately, i might add. also, i work for a trend company and the stats on breast augmentation indicate lowering age first implants first received, and increasing numbers across all ages, and all the while the acceptability of porn (the it's look) is becoming mainstream.
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tatina
post Jun 24 2006, 03:27 AM
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Hello, I am Tatina and I am new here. I don't know if this will be helpful, but I think all these beauty standards are entirely depending on the culture you grew up in. I was a teenager in Europe in the 70ties and small boobs were the chicest and coolest thing a girl could have. All the in-girls had small breasts. We were all praying not to be cursed with big boobs and our idols were small-boobed actresses like Jane Birkin. Not that I consider this to be the solution - it is just another beauty ideal that discriminates women with more volomptous bodies. Nevertheless, I always felt entirely at peace with my small breasts... Take care, Tatina
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cloverbee
post Jun 24 2006, 02:46 AM
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I rocked the braless look today and I must say that I am happier than I have ever been w/ my small boobs even tho I hear tons of guys talking about big boobs!!
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popeyesgal
post Jun 22 2006, 04:00 PM
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right on
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post Jun 20 2006, 11:54 AM
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Yay Rawrbaby!!!!
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rawrbaby
post Jun 20 2006, 04:17 AM
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Hey all!

Yesterday was the such a milestone for me because i finally took my bra off infront of my boyfriend! It was an extremely big relief to, well, get it off my chest hahah. He was totally supportive and really made me feel relaxed with it. He really isnt bothered about the size of my boobs and i reckon alot of other lads out their are like that too, just the few that make you feel bad about yourselves. Well anyway finally after 6 months of being with my boyfriend i took it off! Once it was off it my heart wasnt going into overdrive or i didnt want to run out screaming "ahh im naked!" Everything was just well perfect.

Thank you for everyone who replied to my past posts you all really did help.

Good luck to anyone who is in the same situation as i was, or to anyone trying to overcome their issues with their small boobs.

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texaz
post Jun 10 2006, 09:50 PM
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Thanks greenbean and suffering. I'll check out that website. You know, it took me years to get past my insecurities about having "mosquito bites" for boobs. But I finally did. And I used to love to say, they're small, but they're perky! Plus, my husband said he liked them because they were much more sensitive than large ones. Unfortunately, I have learned even small boobs start to droop as you age. :-(
So, now as I have gained some weight, and my band size is larger, I just cannot seem to find comfortable bras that actually fit. I don't like anything padded either. Because when they're padded and itch, you can't feel yourself scratch! lol Anybody know what I mean.
I hate to say it, but I have been considering having augmentation surgery just so I can find a freakin' bra that will fit. But, for now, I'll just keep looking for websites that can help me. Like you guys!! Thanks for being here.
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cloverbee
post Jun 10 2006, 05:48 PM
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chic312, welcome!! I'm glad to hear that you have come to terms w/ your body.
I love that this thread is made up of people at all different stages concerning thier body image.
I am still struggling but I have decided to lose weight in my stomach instead of try and alter my boobs. I just think it will look better if my tummy didn't stick out past them! I'm a 34A and I'm pretty happy w/ my size. I can't say I wouldn't be happier w/ a 34C, but I may never know what that's like and that's okay w/ me.
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chic312
post Jun 10 2006, 04:35 PM
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can't believe i just found you guys. i'm 34, skinny, damn near totally flat and have been living a self conscious life since i was supposed to "bloom" in my teenage years. i'll be honest with you all that i have come as close to medically altering my body as i'd care to and i'm not going back there ever again. a good doctor told me i had no business being in his office for consultation b/c he believed that i really didn't want to be there. i came close and i am so glad i didn't cut my body up to live up to insane media standards of beauty. if it ain't broke don't fix it, why go looking for trouble? i still struggle with body image, but can't really say i've ever had trouble getting the man i wanted. i will also say, unfortunately, that out of about 5 serious boyfriends, all of whom listened to me contemplate surgery, 3 brought it back up for consideration and 2 never took the topic any further. it's so sad that the guys are as brainwashed about it as we are. i feel really sad about boys and girls growing up now, it's got to be impossible to wade through images and reality. anyway, here to say, i'm walking around braless more and more- who the fuck cares? i glad i'm healthy and not nuts. thanks for listening, i'm grateful you're out there.
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greenbean
post Jun 10 2006, 11:42 AM
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Texaz! We are the same size! Isnt it weird to have a broad chest and tiny boobs? My cousin used to call me "Duke" like a dog cuz I have a big 'ol breast-less rig cage and a tiny waist, kinda like a doverman (shes got huge boobs and her own set of insecurities mind you)
I can only find my size in training bras, and those dont even fit perfectly. I haven't tried online ordering cuz I hate buying stuff I can't try on.

I echo isabelle's sentiment, tho! Tight tee and no bra is tre hott!! Thats how I roll most of the time!


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suffering
post Jun 9 2006, 10:24 PM
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Hi texaz. Have you tried this site? http://www.aalingerie.com/
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isabelle
post Jun 9 2006, 10:37 AM
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I love my small breasts. My larger breasted friends have all kinds of problems I never deal with.
I'm feminine, my breasts included, they're perky, they're not sagging as I get older, and if I want to pretend to have large breasts for a day it's easy to do, not so easy for the big breasted girls to be me though. Ha ha!

My favorite is small breasted woman, tight t-shirt, no bra.
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texaz
post Jun 9 2006, 12:42 AM
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Buying Bras.......
I am brand new here. I found this website by trying to find a place I could order bras for a size 38AA. For my band size, it's near impossible to find bras. Does anybody have any suggestions?
Thanks a lot
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cloverbee
post Jun 7 2006, 12:14 PM
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I have dreams that my boobs are bigger. Anybody else experience these?
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lux
post Jun 7 2006, 01:58 AM
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i try to keep in mind that they wont start to sag:-)
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ginger_kitty
post Jun 6 2006, 05:32 PM
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I love being a 34A! My husband always says my boobies are perky and perfect.

Lux, reclaim your small breasts, smaller boobs are always sexier!


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