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strongirl
post Jan 1 2009, 08:03 PM
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Nice perspectives re. breasts being so much more than "funbags" (geez, I hate that term! The visual it calls up for me is truly disgusting.)

I have gotten much sexual pleasure out of my little breasts over the years but certainly their high point as far as I'm concerned was in providing sustenance for my son. Breastfeeding was a truly mind-blowing, wonderful experience for me. When I looked at my six-month-old baby, round and fat and healthy as could be and fed with nothing but my own breastmilk, I felt a very deep satisfaction and pride and gratitude to my breasts. And don't ever think that small-breasted women produce less milk. I could have fed half of Denver.

We've rarely touched on it in here but I think one of the greatest harms of our culture's emphasis on breasts as sexual objects for men is that women are afraid to nurse their own babies for fear it will hurt their appearance and lessen their sexual appeal. That is so wrong and sad.

Here's to breasts: life-giving, sexy, and powerful, at any size.
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mynameislala
post Jan 1 2009, 05:52 PM
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Oh my God, lightchested!

Every word you wrote is so true. Having breasts is so much more than just filling out tops, or looking hot in bed.

Your post was beautiful. I wish every man and women (because so many women ignore the fact that breasts are more than sexy "funbags"), would consider everything that comes along with having breasts (of any size). You could even say that aesthetics is the least important concern!

Breasts are just like any other organ. They have to be taken care of. They need the proper fit. They are definitely not FUN bags sometimes. I wish more people would realize that.

Again, great post.
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P Lover Ray
post Jan 1 2009, 12:00 PM
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treehugger
post Dec 31 2008, 07:44 PM
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Yep...once you get to 38, the smallest cup size is a C.... smile.gif Sport bras work well for me, but it'd be nice to have options. I can sort of wear a 36 C if it's one of those kind of "formed" ones so it doesn't wrinkle over my breasts. but it digs into my ribs and doesn't fit me right...blah. And a 38 C is WAYYYY out of my league. heh.

AP, I love your last post...I want to have your internet babies. smile.gif


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bottleblack
post Dec 31 2008, 06:24 PM
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Treehugger I'm totally a 38B as well, and bra sizes always stop at 36 B!!
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lightchested
post Dec 31 2008, 02:46 PM
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This is to P Lover Ray, or Kegel Boy, or whatever your name is...

Today my small breasts are affecting me thusly:

1) While taking a shower this morning, I had to ignore all the lumps that are so palpable in my breasts due to the largeness of lump size relative to my small breast size. I had to try to push the fear of cancer out of my mind and remind myself that since having lost 40 pounds (and consequently a substantial amount of breast fat) my fibrocystic lumps are going to be more palpable, and are not necessarily an indication of cancer. I have to also push out of my mind my Bi-RADS rating from an MRI I had done 2 years ago, and convince myself that it only indicated such a high probability of a cancerous lump in my right breast because I have such small, dense breasts, and that MRIs are typically not indicated for reliable screenings of small breasts.

2) I put on my Calvin Klein bralette, size small/petite (to fit my breasts) but am dealing with the pain of the straps digging into my shoulders, since Calvin Klein apparently believes that those with small breasts have small bodies. I am a tall adult woman, and my small breasts do not reside 3 inches below my shoulders. This bralette's non-adjustable shoulder straps are killing me. I suppose if I could have bought the medium or large sized bralette, the straps would probably be longer, for the designer would have assumed a larger (adult) body to go with the medium or large sized boobs. But I can't buy the medium or large sized bralette because I have very small breasts on my tall adult body. And so my shoulders are getting new ridges in them that will serve as canals should I decide to turn my head to either side and start crying about my small breasted plight.

3) My pretty pink sweater with rhinestone zipper (size small) is wrinkling all over my boobs, since its designer clearly expected that whoever wore this garment would have more significantly sized flesh mounds in that area than do I. I look like a child wearing her mother's "fancy grownup clothes". But they are my clothes. And they don't come any smaller, so I just have to walk around looking like I am playing dress-up.

Now, my question to you, P Lover Ray, is this:
How will Kegel exercises improve my small breasted plight in any of the above-mentioned scenarios?
1) Will developing my Kegel muscles make my breast lumps go away? Will tightening them make me forget my fears of breast cancer?
2) Will better Kegel muscles lengthen the straps of the Calvin Klein small/petite bralette?
3) Can I Kegel my way to a wrinkle-free New Year's Eve sweater?

These are not the only challenges I have with my small breasts, by any means! But they are the ones that are most affecting me today. And as far as I know, no amount of tightening my p**** is going to assist in overcoming any of these challenges.

What you posted on this board is very insulting to us. It is closed-minded and egotistical. It assumes that we view our breasts as sex toys, and they are so much more than that to us. Your posts were degrading.


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kittenb
post Dec 31 2008, 11:15 AM
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neurotic.nelly
post Dec 31 2008, 10:53 AM
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ailurophile, the sugarplum on the right is very sexy. not sure if your bf will like tassels, but you could get some for yourself and walk around with em on to see how you feel. if you feel sexy, i say go for it!
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ailurophile
post Dec 31 2008, 08:48 AM
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[b]What it is about, is about femininity. Big breasts (not huge porno bolt ons, but normal natural ones) look feminine, they look like a woman. Most of us expected to get breasts at puberty not to attract boys, but to look womanly, to feel like our mothers, grandmothers, aunts or other role models. We wanted them to feel like we had grown up and were sassy and independent. It's a symbol of womanhood, of adulthood, not of sex appeal alone.[/b

Mynameislala: Well said! I am sick and tired.... really sick and tired of ALWAYS being the smallest girl to walk into a room, no matter where I go...store, work, family gathering. There was a trainer at the gym smaller than I. She doesn't work there anymore...back to being the smallest! Every-fucking-where I go!!! It is about femininity and no-I do not feel feminine.

NeuroticNelly: I look more like the Sugar Plum on the right. Is that sexy? If you think my bf will like that, I'll get some. I just always thought I'd look like a dork.


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treehugger
post Dec 31 2008, 07:46 AM
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QUOTE(pollystyrene @ Dec 30 2008, 11:03 PM) *
Oh, you girls are hilarious. I don't even know where I fit in on the small/large spectrum (44C, so small-side-of-large cup size, but small for my band size, as is apparent when I try to shop for this weird size!) but the freakazoids these threads attract and the response they get never fail to amuse me! laugh.gif


hehe...I have the same problem, it's next to impossible to find my size....38 B.....


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anarch
post Dec 31 2008, 02:23 AM
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oh my cod, Busties are so fucking funny! biggrin.gif and wise.

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loonydaray
post Dec 31 2008, 01:43 AM
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what.
the.
hell.
wow.
i think mynameislala and auralpoison have really said it all
i mean.. damn.
what a freaking prick
it's almost hilarious how completely ignorant his two posts were
i love how he sits there and thinks he's doing us all this big favor..
aha..aha. blink.gif
well whatever lol. at least he's gone.

btw. neurotic_nelly thanks for posting that link i loved it smile.gif
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auralpoison
post Dec 31 2008, 12:24 AM
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AP, waxing chumps from way back! Been dingoed twice, but keeps coming back for more!

OMG! I just laughed so hard a little pee came out of my sacred place. Just a little, though. And that pee was a gift from just above the holiest of hole-ys

Is it not uncanny that the "sensitive males" all sound EXACTLY the same? I mean, how many times have we heard this schtick? "I'm sooooo misunderstood!" No, dude, we get it. We totally do. You're the one that isn't grokking things. This thread has nothing to do with pussies. As far as I know, there are no "Big cunt" or "Little cunt" threads BECAUSE WE ARE OKAY WITH OUR FINE CHINA! WE LOVE OUR PUSSIES & KNOW HOW TO USE THEM!

PLR, you completely dismissed the topic of this thread & went on with great largesse about something that wasn't event remotely relevant to the women that post here. Apples/oranges, pussies/breasts. They may both still be fruit, but . . . You just rambled on with your masturbatory revelations about what you consider female attractiveness to be. WHICH ISN'T WHAT THIS THREAD IS ABOUT. This thread is about having small breasts & the drama that goes with it. Yes, there is some insecurity. But there are also inquiries about buying a good bra. There are sexy pictures of girls in pasties. Finding a swimsuit that fits both on top & on bottom. There are all kinds of things going on here that you don't understand because you don't have boobs. *And* because you didn't bother to READ THE GODDAMNED THREAD TO HAVE SOME BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT IT'S ABOUT, you came off like a douche. You just spouted off your hairbrained theories as fact. Yeah, they're facts . . . to YOU. But they hold little water here. I've a thimble here somewhere's . . . perhaps you could put your wisdom there. No, wait! I found a shriveled contact lens!

ETA, big ups to Edie for pointing out the whole sexist mentality of "ugly" women in the supermarket with boyfriends. I couldn't even wrap my mind around how to say that as eloquently as you did, so I just ignored it! Bra-fuckin'-vo!

And Lala, too.

And I love you, too KittenB!


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mynameislala
post Dec 31 2008, 12:20 AM
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Oh Lord... men just don't get it, do they?

EVERYTHING IS NOT ABOUT YOU!!!!!

We're NOT bummed because our small breasts keep us from having men in our lives. Come on, read our posts and you'll realize most of us HAVE a man. We could have many men, or women. It's not about that.

What it is about, is about femininity. Big breasts (not huge porno bolt ons, but normal natural ones) look feminine, they look like a woman. Most of us expected to get breasts at puberty not to attract boys, but to look womanly, to feel like our mothers, grandmothers, aunts or other role models. We wanted them to feel like we had grown up and were sassy and independent. It's a symbol of womanhood, of adulthood, not of sex appeal alone.

Yes, we also like them because they're sexy. We'd all like to be able to wear those gorgeous bras that create amazing cleavage. Why? So we can blow a man's mind? No!!! Because, again, it's a symbol of womanhood and that is sexy. We like feeling sexy for ourselves. When you are a woman, and you look in the mirror and feel sexy for YOURSELF, it's like this warm excited feeling running within you. We just like feeling sexy in our own skin. We like to look at a gorgeous bra or top and think "Hey, I'd look HOT in that". And then you wear it and you look hot in it, and you feel good with yourself. You can have 1000 men leering at you, but if you don't feel sexy with yourself, if you don't feel womanly enough, those men are nothing, they don't even exist. Because it's not about men, our lives don't function around pleasing men. It's all about self confidence. It's like wanting to make love to yourself, in some way.

Which leads me to the next point. We don't live to pleasure men. We don't have sex to pleasure men. NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT PLEASURING MEN! Or do you want me to go to the kitchen already? Go jerk off if that's how you think. But sex is about two people. It's about both getting and giving pleasure. Unless you've watched too many pornos... which leads to the final point...

I HATE when men refer to the vagina as pussy. But that's just me...
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edie52
post Dec 31 2008, 12:08 AM
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Yeah, and furthermore, is it supposed to make us feel good to hear you talk about all of these "unsexy" women in the grocery store who have men who like them enough because of their magical combination of pussy and personality to be seen in public with them? You're implying that you see regular human couples as unsexy woman/"normal" man, and that is pretty fucking sexist.
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pollystyrene
post Dec 31 2008, 12:03 AM
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Oh, you girls are hilarious. I don't even know where I fit in on the small/large spectrum (44C, so small-side-of-large cup size, but small for my band size, as is apparent when I try to shop for this weird size!) but the freakazoids these threads attract and the response they get never fail to amuse me! laugh.gif


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kittenb
post Dec 30 2008, 11:55 PM
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I know that I should either take this to the "Outside" thread or ignore it alltogether but I just CAN'T! So I apologize for derailing.

Ray (and something tells me that you will be back to read the responses) you are a total fucking moron. Absolute and total idiot. Do you expect us to thank you for explaining how the FEMALE body works? We have them, we have some idea what feels good to them. And as for the PC excersizes, yes most of us, even the more "sensitive" members of this "liberated" forum, are aware of them. However, it kills me that you repeat a good personality is important but then fetishize the pussy to the point that, well, I would rather be with SmooveB than be with you. At least there would be chocolate before the butt-sex.

You missed every point that was made here and had you spend even 5 minutes looking beyond the word "breast" in this thread to see the rest of the Bust board you would have realized that there is nothing that you could offer a single member of this community.

Go away you freak of nature.

So much love for everyone else in this board. AP, you slay me!



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post Dec 30 2008, 11:26 PM
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post Dec 30 2008, 10:03 PM
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haha i love the way everyone just swoops in when theres a potential perve on the loose
yeah, we have pussies, theyre fab, but this is a boobie forum. if ya dont got any then schmoose

purplestain that's gorgeous! i dunno what it is about the uk but it seems so hard to find 'bralettes'. infact i hadnt evenn heard the word until i came on here with you american busties. im so jealous because i always see such pretty lacy ones on the american sites i look at. even the offerings of the uk urban outfitters doesnt quite compare to the lovely ones ive seen on the US version:(

i skipped the inbetween week of my bcp to avoid an annoying christmas-time period and so my boobs are feeling super heavy n swollen at the mo'. i was abit excited about having some clevage for new years eve until i remembered id already picked out a mini dress that goes right upto my collar bone. so a lot of discomfort and not really any benefits right now

thanks for the link nelly. im now tempted to get some tassles. they look so cute on small boobies
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post Dec 30 2008, 07:55 PM
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